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Group 6 Goals Explained
Good Mental Health and Psychological Well Being
Having awareness about movement to not-OK Miniscript positions. For details click here Miniscript.
Having awareness about occupying one of three unhealthy Life Positions. For Life Positions click here Life Positions.
Having awareness about Redefining Transactions. For redefining transactions click here Frame of Reference and Redefining.
Having awareness about our tendency to engage in competitive symbiosis. Competitive Symbiosis - In competitive symbiosis two persons haggle with each other for the same dominant role.
These are indicators about a person having good mental health and psychological well being.
Response to stimuli. These are sane, safe, appropriate and effective. They help to end the situation, solve the problem, overcome the difficulty, tide over the condition, face the challenge and, accept the existence of a conflict and move to resolve it.
Having capacity for decision making.
Able to deal with confusion, indecision, struggle, dilemmas and impasses.
Able to end emotional lock-jams.
Able to deal with racket feelings in lieu of authentic feelings.
Capacity to generate the moment and be in the moment. Also to bringing mind where the body is or in the ongoing activity.
Level, honest, open interactions with others in intimacy.
Having awareness about use of crossed transactions and tangential transactions during interactions with others.
Having awareness about racket actions, behaviour and expressions being the con for engaging others in games.
Being topic centric. Communication is free of driver influence. Click here for Drivers and Driver influenced Communication types.
Being at ease when alone and equally at ease being in the company of others.
Having capacity for conscious awareness.
No compulsion to play games or engage in rackets.
Having awareness about our movement to persecutor, rescuer, victim or manipulator game roles.
Having good Social Control.
Freedom from justifying, protecting and professing one's point of view as being the only correct or right view.
Freedom from being stubborn, blaming, giving back, pointing mistakes, expecting and anticipating, anxiety and distress, tunnel vision, passivity, passive behaviours, grandiosity, locked in driver behaviours.
Having awareness about the need to be disciplined, cordial, accepting and accommodating in interactions with others in close relationships - siblings, children, spouse, friends, neighbours, and also in other places - social settings, clubs, meetings and discussion forums. Catching the mischievous behaviour of another is itself being mischievous.
Having awareness about the many modes of rackety displays elaborated in the script system. For details click here Script System.
Response to stimuli. These are sane, safe, appropriate and effective. They help to end the situation, solve the problem, overcome the difficulty, tide over the condition, face the challenge and, accept the existence of a conflict and move to resolve it.
Having capacity for decision making.
Able to deal with confusion, indecision, struggle, dilemmas and impasses.
Able to end emotional lock-jams.
Able to deal with racket feelings in lieu of authentic feelings.
Capacity to generate the moment and be in the moment. Also to bringing mind where the body is or in the ongoing activity.
Level, honest, open interactions with others in intimacy.
Having awareness about use of crossed transactions and tangential transactions during interactions with others.
Having awareness about racket actions, behaviour and expressions being the con for engaging others in games.
Being topic centric. Communication is free of driver influence. Click here for Drivers and Driver influenced Communication types.
Being at ease when alone and equally at ease being in the company of others.
Having capacity for conscious awareness.
No compulsion to play games or engage in rackets.
Having awareness about our movement to persecutor, rescuer, victim or manipulator game roles.
Having good Social Control.
Freedom from justifying, protecting and professing one's point of view as being the only correct or right view.
Freedom from being stubborn, blaming, giving back, pointing mistakes, expecting and anticipating, anxiety and distress, tunnel vision, passivity, passive behaviours, grandiosity, locked in driver behaviours.
Having awareness about the need to be disciplined, cordial, accepting and accommodating in interactions with others in close relationships - siblings, children, spouse, friends, neighbours, and also in other places - social settings, clubs, meetings and discussion forums. Catching the mischievous behaviour of another is itself being mischievous.
Having awareness about the many modes of rackety displays elaborated in the script system. For details click here Script System.
Having awareness about movement to not-OK Miniscript positions. For details click here Miniscript.
Having awareness about occupying one of three unhealthy Life Positions. For Life Positions click here Life Positions.
Having awareness about Redefining Transactions. For redefining transactions click here Frame of Reference and Redefining.
Having awareness about our tendency to engage in competitive symbiosis. Competitive Symbiosis - In competitive symbiosis two persons haggle with each other for the same dominant role.
Ending Unproductive Mind Talk
Ending unproductive mind talk is being free of a chattering mind. Eric Berne says that when one is humming a song in the mind there is a tune to which he is singing. Similarly it may be said that there is a topic in the mind space that gets us to engage in mind talk. There is only a difference in the level of insanity of persons who chat in their mind and those who speak loudly or even shout about it on the street or in public places.
Discarding Trash
Discarding Trash is consciously being aware about our many types of dysfunctional behaviours. The significant ones being inability to differentiate person from behaviour, drivers, passive behaviours, thinking disorders, crossed and redefining transactions, competitive symbiotic relating, inability to deal with urges, drives and impulses, moving to unhealthy life positions or roles on not-ok mini-script or roles on drama triangle, or being engaged in any one of the rackety displays mentioned in the script system.
Being an Accepting, Loving, Liking Person
Coming to acquire healthy qualities of an active Free Child and Permissive Parent.
Being Happy and Joyful in a childlike way
This is possible when the Free Child is released.
This is possible when the Free Child is released.
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