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Group 4 Goals
Capacity to be Loving
Loving means to be accepting and appreciating; being kind, considerate and affectionate; being helping, assisting and caring; it also means having capacity for intimacy without threat or put-downs. Loving is also expressed by not holding on to unpleasant feelings about another.
Being Loving is also marked by being free of expecting and having capacity for a dialectical approach. Dialectical means the ability to see from the other person's point of view.
Being Loving is also marked by being free of expecting and having capacity for a dialectical approach. Dialectical means the ability to see from the other person's point of view.
Capacity to be Friendly
Being friendly is marked by being kind, caring, helping, forgiving and forgetting.
Being friendly is also marked by being other person accepting and overlooking the defects and shortcomings in the other.
Being friendly is also marked by being other person accepting and overlooking the defects and shortcomings in the other.
Forgiving
A forgiving person is able to separate person from behaviour. The person is aware that forgiving has nothing to do with another. It has everything to do with oneself. Forgiving is becoming free of consuming poison in the the hope that another will suffer. With this a forgiving person is able to let go.
Hermann Hess has written in his novel Siddharth that the accomplished is he who is able to put his foot again and again in the same river to find that the river is new every single time.
Hermann Hess has written in his novel Siddharth that the accomplished is he who is able to put his foot again and again in the same river to find that the river is new every single time.
Forgetting
Forgetting is the art of deliberately working to freeing our mind from lock-jams about events, persons, happenings and experiences.
Discarding
Discarding is the art of throwing away into dustbin a thought, feeling, emotion, happening, experience that is bothering and generating a lock-jam in the mind.
The process of conducting practices to become loving, friendly, forgiving, forgetting and discarding is covered in a section of 09.12. Click here > 09.12 Loving, Forgiving, Forgetting and Discarding if you wish to see it right away.
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